❕❕This carrd is still being built as I learn more, fix wording, and figure out better ways to explain complex queer ideas. There may be misspells or unfinished parts it’s still a draft and hasn’t been posted publicly yet❕❕

Coexistinclus =🌈=
Queer identities have always existed in many forms, and they’ve always coexisted. Everyone’s identity is self-assigned, personal, and shaped by their own experiences. Some identities have clear boundaries or categories (Ulexens), while others bend or challenge traditional expectations (Daylilians). Both are valid, both are real, and both deserve acknowledgement.Why was this made?
This carrd is a personal project made to help me sort out my own identity and dysphoria (and others who might feel similar) . I use Ulexen to describe myself and wanted to clearly separate it from Daylilian, not out of hate, but to feel more at peace with my own labels. Over time, learning more about Daylilian identities helped me respect them instead of being bitter or dysphoric about their existence and I hope it can help other dysphoric Ulexens understand Daylilians and feel validated too.NOTE
These concepts aren’t meant to divide the LGBTQ+ community or police anyone’s identity. They’re just tools to explain how different people relate to labels, categories, and dysphoria. Nobody has to use any of these terms. They just help explain how nuanced queer identity can be. Two people with the same label may have completely different lived experiences.

+FYI : both of these spectrums are inclusive of a-specs, neopronouns, xenogenders, pronoun nonconformity, nonbinary+ transmascs lesbians (not all transmascs are binary men), nonbinary+ transfem gays (not all transfems are binary women)

Ulexen * ∂ *
Common Identitfying Queer/LGBT+ : CIQ
When one's queer identity and the labels one uses is categorized in some way, it may have its limits or boundaries so that one can be affirmed or euphoric with themselves and others— Mono : mono-Lesbians, mono-Gays, mono-Hets (transhets / nbyhets) [Including a-specs who are also mono] Ulexen mono-gays/straights are exclusively attracted to one gender (and possibly others genders similar to that one such as those under the nonbinary umbrella) their attraction OR interest is exclusive to their preferred gender, even if some may have attraction to other genders it’s irrelevant to their identity and they don’t identify as mspec at all.— Mspec : Bi, Pan, Omni, Ply, Hetero/Homoflexible and any other specific labels such as Sapphic and Achillean, those who combine these mspec terms (bi-homoflexible, pan-omni, bi-sapphic , omni-achillean), etc [Including a-specs who are also mspec] Ulexen Mspecs May only want to be seen as their respective mspec identity (they don’t identify as mono) or a combination of mspec orientations, regardless if they have preferences or not.— GNC and or Trans men/women who are and want to be seen as socially equal or similarly categorized with conforming cis men/women, despite their experiences, agab and/or presentation, or not wanting to note differences and just wanting be seen as socially equal to most binary men/women. Some may also be under the nonbinary umbrella : such as *some Demiboys/girls still wanting to be similarly categorized in some way with their binary counterparts.— And any others who feel as though their identity in some way fits under this

Dualilian
Being equally both, being fluid, or being in the grey area between the ulexen and daylilian in some way

(Left) Mostly Ulexen Flag * ∂\ // (Right) Mostly Daylilian Flag /※*Dialilian - being mostly daylilian than ulexenDulexen - being mostly ulexen than daylilian

Daylilian /※\
Contradicting OR Nonconformist Identifying Queer/LGBT+ : NCIQ, Non-CIQ
When ones queer experiences, identity, and or the labels one uses is seen as contradicting. It is done with intent of authenticity of themselves and their own life, and not to specific standards or expectations.— Mspec-Mono: Mspec-Lesbians, Mspec-Gays , Mspec-straights : Bi-Lesbians, Bi-Gays, Pan-straight & many other possible combinations.
Reasons : having a strong preference, fluid attraction (Abrosexual), using the split attraction models, or just feeling a strong attachment to both experiences that they feel inseparable [Including a-specs who are also mspec-mono]— Mono x Mono : Gaybians, Gayhet, Straightbians, etc other combinations : Commonly used by Nonbinary or Multi-gendered folks who feel their attraction very distinctive due their gender or experiences [also includes a-specs who identify with these terms aswell]** Usually under the nonbinary or multigender umbrella and/or not wanting to be categorized or compared similarly to cis folks of their gender and unlike ulexen trans/gnc folks **
— GNC Genderqueer Men, Trans Men who reclaim, feel attachment, comparable, capable of being, and or compatible with sapphics, and lesbians (some possibly feel compatible with straight men) /// GNC Genderqueer Women, Trans Women who reclaim, feel attachment, comparable, capable of being, and or compatible with (mlm) achilleans, and gay men. (some possibly feel compatible with straight women) [also inclusive of a-specs who identify this way]— And any others who feel as though their identity in some way fits under this

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Pro-mogai
Pro - all non harmful queer identities in general❎ This stance is pro-MOGAI and pro all non-harmful queer identities. It is against transmeds (for being transphobic), radqueers (for harmful identities/behavior), and the way “radinclus” has been taken over or ruined by harmful groups.